You know, i never believed something as silly as money can bring down relationships.
I have always thought, and still think that money is just a tool to make you happy, regardless of where its been used and how. For me, spending is easy. Specially on things that brings smiles to my faces and the people I love.
I’m just so frustrated when people don’t think that way. For them money is the king, that they keep bowing to. Its funny to me, but well, they must be having a strong reason behind that too, that i might never understand.
Anyways, the matter altogether is about money and relationships. I’ve seen those happenings, i’ve seen brothers fighting over money. Of course all of you have seen Ambani bros recently. The family that used to be so ‘together’ till the time Dhirubhai Ambani was alive. But then, whosh!, after the death of Mr D. Ambani, the trouble begins. Even its not about money, but about how the two brothers choose to spend it. Anil is the flashy, openly spending kind, for whom happiness is more important then money. Whereas Mukesh is more of a reserved, and with a close hand about money. Mukesh probably hates the way anil spends his or rather their money, and there starts the war. The war is not between two brothers, its between two different lifestyles, two perceptions, two relative truths. That is how i see that matter. Its just my perception, after all. What i think is, In that condition there is no winner. As Both are right. But as an impulsive human I also have a right to be opinionated and supportive to a ‘particular’ kind, therefore i choose to support Anil. And i choose to disagree with Mukesh.
I mean, money is to make you happy, right? Everyone will agree. But here everyone will have a different definition for You in that sentence. For First category people the You will only include him/her self, for second category it will include him/her self and a favorite fews who could either be your family and/or spouse. For so shameful third category people like me, it will incluse my friends, my family, my beloved ones and myself.
Of course when you are of the second category like my elder sister and choose your favorite few as a boyfriend and not the family, whereas her boyfriend is a total First category person…. then hell! the relationship does go down the drain, isnt It?
Heck, mabbe its just the hatred for that guy that has made me write this one.
Ektz
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